During my time going through IVF, I remember battling with the decision to give up. Our last cycle resulted in a miscarriage and the only one when I got pregnant through IVF and not naturally and then miscarried. This made it very hard to know what to do next. As it was, I think i felt so wretched in the months that followed, I knew that six rounds and one scary few weeks with OHSS, I was through. Well sort of. A few months ago we had the 'big talk' about what to do with the last embryo and truthfully I couldn't bear to sign the papers but we want to donate to another couple if we can. This is bringing up a lot of thoughts, worries and old feelings. This article is very useful in working some of it out so I'm sharing with you all here.