I met the married couple who write Married And Childless at Fertility Fest. Both myself and Steph at World Childless Week would have happily dragged Michael to the stage because he spoke so movingly about infertility from the man's point of view. His wife, Vickie is an extraordinarily astute woman who had all the right words in the two days we spent together. They hail from Australia so I think they must be the most well travelled in the audience and I hope that we'll remain friends for a long time. I felt like I had known them for years.
I really do urge you to read their site especially if you're a bloke as Michael authors a lot of the content. I speak to Kenny, my husband about our infertilty a lot, but it's enlightening to us both to read Michael's perspective.
The mental health impact of infertility on men is a difficult area to quantify. It can be incredibly difficult for men to talk about this with their partner, family or friends. And the impact on a marriage, as Kenny and I have found, can test those vows. It's also evidenced in academic and medical studies as shown here.